From being the unwanted girl child, to how she was grappled at in a lift ..Stories come to our notice only cause the "victims" are famous faces..
How many stories of a middle class girl from one of those cities come to our view if it isn't for the media, or a connection with one of those socially famous people?
Not everyone knows of that girl who was a second born to a middle class family living in a small town.As against the expectations of her parents and their in-laws she was born 'A girl", a second girl child..
Not deprived of anything in life, she was just deprived of love.
Things weren't exactly how it was with her siblings, but then she could never complain. That's the best she had always...
They say things change with time,but seldom so!!!
As she grew up she realized not much of her life choices could actually be made by herself. Why you ask? cause she was a girl,a girl to a working class family... Not much was allowed to be decided by her.
Her choice of friends show her character, her choice of lifestyle decided who would CHOOSE her as their life partner.
No matter how any times they told her to be educated and independent before getting settled in life, when she attained the marriageable age ,they started looking for suitors. Irrespective of her decisions, of how she wanted to live, of her educational status. everything became secondary then...
yet again what mattered is her parents choice, choice regarding her social life, of who she choose to be in her life, of who she wanted to be with, of how educated she wanted to be, or how independent she should be. The reason this time - her to be in - laws could follow all her steps, and probably wouldn't be too open minded to accept an independent, outgoing girl like herself.
Made her wonder if she had done mistakes, were all others invincible?
Wonder if all those efforts to make them proud were in vain?
Wonder if it mattered at all? cause end of the day all she got to hear is " you are not worth it!!!"..
Wonder What? Wonder if?? Wonder why???
How many stories of a middle class girl from one of those cities come to our view if it isn't for the media, or a connection with one of those socially famous people?
Not everyone knows of that girl who was a second born to a middle class family living in a small town.As against the expectations of her parents and their in-laws she was born 'A girl", a second girl child..
Not deprived of anything in life, she was just deprived of love.
Things weren't exactly how it was with her siblings, but then she could never complain. That's the best she had always...
They say things change with time,but seldom so!!!
As she grew up she realized not much of her life choices could actually be made by herself. Why you ask? cause she was a girl,a girl to a working class family... Not much was allowed to be decided by her.
Her choice of friends show her character, her choice of lifestyle decided who would CHOOSE her as their life partner.
No matter how any times they told her to be educated and independent before getting settled in life, when she attained the marriageable age ,they started looking for suitors. Irrespective of her decisions, of how she wanted to live, of her educational status. everything became secondary then...
yet again what mattered is her parents choice, choice regarding her social life, of who she choose to be in her life, of who she wanted to be with, of how educated she wanted to be, or how independent she should be. The reason this time - her to be in - laws could follow all her steps, and probably wouldn't be too open minded to accept an independent, outgoing girl like herself.
Made her wonder if she had done mistakes, were all others invincible?
Wonder if all those efforts to make them proud were in vain?
Wonder if it mattered at all? cause end of the day all she got to hear is " you are not worth it!!!"..
Wonder What? Wonder if?? Wonder why???
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