The Phallic Gesture

The guy who used that finger to insult his ex after a break-up.
And that other one who thought its cool to use it,
or that girl who laughed at her friend who hurt his middle finger where all under the impression that the only use of your finger was to abuse someone.
But did they ever think of the ways it can be useful too?
I doubt.
The use of the middle finger as an abusive language dates back to centuries.

"It's one of the most ancient insult gestures known," says anthropologist Desmond Morris.

Here is the proof..

No arguing that it can represent a very intimate part of someone's body but how is even that abusive.??.
Don't they all have it, you would agree they all use it too.

Apart from this fact why do we always tend to forget it can be used in a lot of other ways..
Like when that bottle with a really narrow neck had your favourite nuts stuck to its bottom didn't you use it?
That being the tallest member of the family of your fingers didn't you use it to pull that dice in your favourite game...
We all remember that one time in your childhood when the teacher wrote something really high on the blackboard and you needed to point at it..didn't you use that finger?
Look around and you will see you can use the finger in a lot of ways..so why acclaim it as the abusive one...???

Save the drama...

All those years while you were growing up .
Through your childhood you picturised in your mind how you would want your lover or life partner to be like your father..who treats you like a princess.
While in your teens you thought of a picture of him as the usual tall,dark,handsome,loving,protective one,the one giving you flowers and chocolates and what not....
and then you thought you fell in love with the one while your teenage ends.
 later you realize he was just lame... you learn a lesson to stay away from creeps.
But why did you waste so much time?
Cause end of it all your teens ended,you reached your twenties and you fell in love with someone who is nothing like what you thought.
But he made you feel special,his very smell made you ecstatic,his words made you love him more.
his care made you wish for more,agreed you became a little greedy for a little more...
But you love him, you believe that he is the one ..he probably is...
But quintessentially he is not gonna be with you. He will leave you,your love will remain endless.
But you know that is going to the only one...
Cause you will never love that way ever again... ..
you will move on,marry have a life ahead... but someday sitting on that armchair,sipping on your cup of coffee,watching your children growing up you will think about him.
A tear or two will trickle down your cheeks.
and then you will look at your husband beside you give a smile ...cuddle him and move on again....
That is life ...the beauty lies in accepting your fate!!!